Jewish Wedding Traditions
Surely, we all have family traditions or know of others who do. A tradition is something handed down from generations ago, whether it has to do with thoughts, behavior or actions. Many times traditions stem back to cultural backgrounds of ancestors or nationality. Becoming husband and wife, the bride and groom may wish to follow traditions of their own which can be done by combining the two backgrounds.
A traditional Jewish wedding is much more then a ceremony and a party. It’s full of meaning and purpose as well as rituals. The rituals start with the wedding day all the way to the Seudah or the festive meal. This holy day is full of meaning and full of reflection on the life you will begin with the one you love.
Although there is no actual exchange of vows, there are traditions that may take place. It’s up to each couple if they would like to participate in a vow exchange or not. While exchanging wedding rings, a rabbi may say a blessing over them and the couple may wish to say a few words of their own.
The Ketubah is the Jewish marriage contract, traditionally written in Aramaic. This has deep meaning for the bride and groom as it describes in great detail the responsibilities of the husband as well as what may happen in behalf of the wife, if the husband dies. This may serve as a reminder for each mate as they continue on their journey of life together.
A symbolic ritual that may be well recognized is that of the breaking of the glass. This has a very rich meaning. At the end of the ceremony, the wine glass is crushed or broken under the groom’s foot. The drinking of the wine in the glass represents the joys of life while the breaking of it represents the hardships of life.
Several traditions include the ones in attendance as well. Guests may wish to state a Jewish proverb or adage or even state a traditional Jewish blessing. Traditionally, there are seven Jewish blessings. Each of these seven blessings may even be used as readings. Traditional dances may need the participation of the guests as well. For instance, The Horah. This is the traditional dance of the bride and groom being raised up on chairs. Whether a Jewish couple wish to follow these traditions is up to them. If one is Jewish and the other another religion or of another background, traditions can be combined. You are starting a life together, so each tradition may be full of meaning for the newly married couple.
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By jon dunn on Mar 12, 2009